Full Circle with A-Rod

I’ve always loved the term “We’ve come full circle.”  Circles are my favorite shape.  They ring themselves around life like God’s bow around a package–and a few weeks ago God drew a circle around a part of our life in the game of baseball.

After spending thirty- two years in the game you begin to think that nothing will surprise you, but Bobby and I were surprised one cloudy morning in October, 2009 when we received a call from the Yankees general manager explaining that we lost our job as third base coach for the team we loved.  He told us that Alex Rodriguez got us fired by complaining to the owners; citing he was uncomfortable with Bobby as a coach.  We were stunned…

Was it because I had consoled his wife (now ex-wife) and prayed with her about the struggles she was enduring in their marriage? (A week later he was publicly paling around with Madonna…)  Was it because Bobby was closer to other infielders on the team and A-Rod felt threatened? Could he sense a spiritual tug as we covered him in daily prayer; only to get thrown under the bus by the very man we prayed for?

Whatever the case, the fall-out from that firing was painful.  We counted a financial loss of around 1.2 million dollars as the Yankees went on to win the World Series the next year, and had many playoff appearances and pay increases in the years to follow.  We spent sixteen years in the minor leagues before landing that job, each of us working two to three jobs a piece to try and make ends meet. We knew our hope was in the Lord, but at times it was difficult to watch A-Rod garnish a string of titles and accolades.  His stunning looks and baseball presence seemed to keep him exempt from the harsh winter of reality.  Even after allegations of performance enhancing drug use stung his stellar record of accomplishments a few years ago–he seemed unfazed by consequence or regret.

A few weeks ago the minor league team Bobby manages for the  Toronto Blue Jays had a double-header with the Tampa Yankees.  And there on third base was A-Rod, nursing a hip injury as he staged a rehab stint on his way back to the big league team.  Bobby has seen A-Rod in passing over the years, but this visit proved to be more.  A “full-circle” encounter if there ever was one…

Alex’s eyes locked on Bobby as he moved towards the coaches box next to third base.  As Bobby thrust his hand out to shake, Alex lunged forward into an awkward hug.  The kind of hug that lasts a bit longer and holds a bit tighter than usual.  A bit stunned, Bobby pulled back and looked Alex in the eye.  As the pitcher took extra time to warm up, Bobby realized God was giving him the gift of time.  Stolen moments to speak into this ballplayer’s life.

“I’ve been praying for you Alex” Bobby said with a warmth in his smile.  “I know you’re going through a lot right now and I want to tell you something.”

Alex remained frozen on third base. As if time stood still, Alex leaned in to listen.  “All the things you’re going through right now (drug investigation by Major League Baseball and the threat of a life-time ban from baseball) it’s too much for you to handle on your own.  Without God, you’ll struggle to make it.”

Alex listened intently as Bobby continued.  “I want you to know that you’re not alone.  The Lord is with you, and He won’t fail you.  No matter what you’ve done, or what lies ahead, He loves you.”

Alex quietly lifted his voice as his eyes looked through Bobby; as if he was in communion with something Bobby couldn’t see.  “I guess I’m learning what’s really important” he whispered.  “You are,” said Bobby “so don’t forget what God teaches you.”

As Bobby moved to his perch in the coaches box and Alex took his position at third, I swear you could see a full circle drawn around these men.  Isn’t it like God to have the last word when we let Him?  Hope, fear, and forgiveness tied in a bow.

We may never have another conversation with A-Rod, but God knew a circle needed to be drawn, and Bobby was the one to draw it.  He could have snubbed Alex with an unforgiving glance, or smirked in pleasure; watching him grapple with his current life predicament–but when you’ve encountered the God who loves, all you want to do is share that gift.  The gift of coming full circle…







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14 Responses to Full Circle with A-Rod

  1. Rick Browne says:

    Thank you Lord! It’s amazing to see God at work in all of our lives. The little things that most people see as coincidence are nothing more than God at work orchestrating all of our lives so that these special moments won’t be missed. Thank you God and thank you Bobby for stories like this. Hopefully, Alex will come to the realization that his only real future is with Jesus. Rick Browne

  2. Wow. What a moving story Gari. You’ve changed how I look at A-Rod and how I need to look at others as well. Everyday is a lesson and you never know where it will come from. Today, it came from you and Bobby. Thank you!


  3. cyndi svoboda says:

    Wow! Miss talking baseball with you guys. We have had a sad Astros season.

  4. Virginia says:

    Ohhhhh…that gives me the chills!!! Thanking God for the gift of forgiveness and perspective as I think on your story.

  5. Shannon Wood says:

    Oh, Gari! That is so amazing.

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  7. Eddie Marrero says:

    I have always been an Arod fan and still am, not because of his arrogance or his steroid use, but because I see the gift God has given him. The Lord tells us not to find joy in others failures. Arod is like the prodigal son, and a man would leave 999 sheep to go look for the one lost one. Pray for him for he needs it today more than ever. This is a great story.

  8. Trina says:

    So awesome. How big of Bobby to have that approach. I know that mine might not have been the same if I was him. God is good.

  9. Tom F says:

    Of all the A-Rod coverage this week, this is my favorite.

  10. Peggy Johnson says:

    Wow, what an eye opening & heart softening story. I have had a huge distaste for A-Rod after I heard about Bobby’s firing. You and Bobby truly exhibit the people Jesus calls us to be as His followers. Thank you so much for sharing this story. I will join you both in prayer for Alex.

  11. Stacy says:

    What a great story! I’ve often thought about the high profile athletes whose lives are falling apart in a very public way and wondered if there was any follower of Christ pouring truth into their life and praying for them. This is my answer. Wow! Thanks for sharing.

  12. Ellen Dean says:

    You and Bobby are such amazing models of Christ and forgiveness.

  13. Cheri Hurd says:

    Wow. . .Miss you and Bobby and the kids! You are too far away to hug!

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In sharing struggles, as well as triumphs, Gari Mecham ultimately shows us a new understanding of prayer-not just the worrying kind but authentic, powerful communication. Spirit Hunger invites us to enter into a whole new relationship with our Lord.

-Debbie Macomber,
New York Times bestselling author